By Misti B., author of If You Leave Me, Can I Come with You: Daily Meditations for Codependents and Al-Anons... with a Sense of Humor
Let’s face it, codependents aren’t generally known for our silly, carefree, personalities - go ahead, do an online search for “codependent” and “humor” or “hilarious.”Known as the hall monitors of
I woke suddenly at 3:30 this morning, panicked about my finances. I had enough money to get through the next year or so, but for some reason this morning, it wasn’t enough.
If I don’t do something fast, I’ll lose everything and end up on the streets. I’ll be forced to forage for meals from
There are times when my efforts to do my “very best” cause me to be thoroughly obnoxious. Hyper-competitive, over-achieving, driven by the need to be more, better, best. Best of the best. Better than the best of the best.
My best often pushes people away, because when I go into overdrive, I can be daunting
Yes, I’ve read Al-Anon’s Checklist for Maturity, and the part about: “A mature adult …does not automatically resent criticism, realizing it may contain a suggestion for self-improvement.”
I didn’t automatically resent your criticism and, I did spend some time thinking about the “feedback” you gave me. I appreciate you saying it was “for my benefit.”